So today a friend of mine had a baby....and while I'm happy for her I felt some type of way to find out I didn't get a picture of the baby! Now granted having gone through childbirth myself I understand its a crazy time, lots of calls, etc., but when I found out she sent another close friend a picture AND they talked my attitude was like ok...... I had texted earlier in the day and still heard nothing. Then I began to think back~this close friend and I really haven't been as close since before dating her now husband. Before they became serious I remember trying to stay in touch and conversations just became less and less~then with dating him it turned into months. This reminded me of a lesson I was told by an older friend......men get into relationships and they fight to keep their friendships while women on the other hand began to communicate less and less with theirs. A few months back Essence even did a story on the importance of Girlfriends and how its a two-way street that is often broken.
My prayer is that I don't become one of those women......that the constant conversations I have with my girlfriends now remain throughout~
~Peace & Blessings~
